Your Human Design chart - the real you?
Sometimes the only way to truly know who you are… is to unravel everything you’re not. This is the story of my empath awakening, my second coming out, and the messy, magical path back to myself.
Human Design: Your Original Energetic Blueprint: In Order to Know Who You Are, You Have to Know Who You Are Not
That’s the message at the heart of this video and one I wish someone had whispered to me years ago.
If you’re an energetically sensitive person, a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), or what Human Design calls an empath (those with open emotional centers), you know what I’m talking about. You’ve likely spent years mistaking other people’s feelings for your own, collapsing into emotions you couldn’t trace, and wondering why you felt so much all the time.
It’s exhausting. And confusing. And isolating. But it’s not random. It’s part of the process.
In Human Design, our open centers aren’t flaws or weak points. They’re sensitivity zones - places where we learn through amplification. When you have an open emotional center, you don’t just feel others’ feelings, you often become them. And if you don’t know that’s what’s happening, it’s easy to mistake borrowed emotion for your own truth.
That’s where the trouble starts. That’s also where the transformation begins.
This video explores the long, non-linear road of un-becoming. Of shedding the borrowed emotions, outdated identities, and false expectations we pick up along the way. It’s about learning to hold space for others without collapsing into their experience. It’s about building emotional boundaries and reclaiming your inner voice. And most importantly, it’s about grace.
Grace for the you that didn’t know better. Grace for the part of you still figuring it out. Grace for the spiral path of self-discovery. So if you’re here thinking you must be doing something wrong because everything feels so overwhelming, let me gently interrupt that narrative:
You are not broken. You are not behind. You are not too much.
You are exactly where you need to be.
To start exploring this more deeply, I invite you to pull your free Human Design chart at www.geneticmatrix.com. Look at your open centers. See where you might be absorbing more than you realize.
Because in order to know who you are, you do have to know who you’re not. And every time you meet a version of yourself that doesn’t feel true - that’s not a failure. That’s feedback.
You’re learning.
You’re waking up.
You’re finding your way.
And that, fellow heart traveler, is the most sacred journey of all.
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Human Design is a blueprint for how your energy is designed to thrive. As a Level 4 Certified Quantum Human Design Coach, I guide clients in using this system to unlock their potential, make aligned choices, and create a life that feels true. If you’re curious to explore your design, I’d love to work with you .
